you fucked up. For centuries, cheating on your spouse or loved one has
been looked down upon. Cheating has pretty much put a nail in the
coffin in most relationships once the secret was revealed! Cheating
seems like the totally wrong thing to do, but i'm here to tell you
that its not always so cut and dry. Please, ready yourselves for my
wisdom.
Cheating can be a good thing. Yes i said it, a good thing! You may
ask, hey Pablo, how the fuck can cheating be a good thing? Well, first
it relieves stress from a relationship. After sex with another person,
you no longer feel the need to argue over small things. Instead, you
feel more connected to your partner. You may feel guilty at first, but
if sex with the other is purely carnal and not about love, you will be
okay with it. I don't believe two people can stay faithful to one
another forever. People who do not cheat will almost always break up,
because they are too high strung! Sex relaxes you and lets you see
clearly. So a potential argument over not caring enough will be
thwarted by you bringing flowers to ur gf after cheating. All im
saying is that when couples cheat on each other, they are less likely
to get caught up in bs arguments!
Cheating is wrong Pablo!! Like i said, it ain't. Most couples cheat on
each other anyway, they just keep it under wraps, as it should!
Cheating can definitely be a positive if done correctly. We are human
and we love to fuck! Plain and simple! Anyone who has said they would
never cheat/never thought of cheating is fooling themselves or full of
shit!! We had dicks and pussies and dickpussies for a reason! We were
born so we can fuck as many people as possible before we die! I know
so many people that fit this bill!! Even our own politicians cheat!
(funny how I said bill, politicians, and cheat in back 2 back
sentences. Pun not intended, but funny none the less!) I mean do you
realize how crazy that is!? These are the people that are supposed to
be upstanding, but at the end of the day, they are just like normal
people...cheaters!
So ladies and gentlemen, stop thinking your partners are saints,
stop thinking its wrong to cheat! Its only wrong to get caught! And if
you get caught, then you try to work it out! You fall in love for
companionship, you have sex for pleasure, two different things. So
peeps with relationship issues, have someone else pleasure you, and
watch your relationship blossom once again!
I have nothing left to say on this subject, other than you obviously
have to wear protection idiots! Goodnight!!
-------UPDATE 8.27.09--------
lol just an FYI, i forgot to mention that these are not my beliefs. This is just an observation I have made and the reasoning behind why people may think it's okay. This was basically my dissertation on cheaters. Lol take care!
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Any counterpoints? Respond in the comment section!
-Pablo
"Ooxxooxoxxooooxoxoxxxooo x"
lmfao! Pablo you are too funny. I see your pov however I think cheating has more negatives than positives. True, maybe couples may not fight as much and they'll let stupid bullshit go. But the whole spiel about bringin home flowers n doin sweet things is purely outta guilt not because they care or for a "just because" no! it's bc they're feeling happy that they got some and they subconsciously feel guilty and convince themselves that buying presents or doin sweet things will make up for theyre cheating and lying. See it's not so much the physical act of cheating but the betrayal of trust that destroys everything. Again, I believe that most people cheat but I think that's only because people don't want to b alone so they get into committed relationships when they're not ready and still have other curiosities and things they wanna experience. However, I think that they're are people out there that have never cheated and don't have the desire to cheat because they've gone thru many diff things and are in a fulfilling relationship where they talk things out even if its the tiniest bs instead of goin to relieve their stress wit someone else. I mean lets face it as hot as forbidden sex is makeup sex is wayyy better lol ...or @ least I seem to think so esp bc theres no guilty conscious afterwards. :-D - Amanda
ReplyDeleteLOL I understand where you are coming from. But the fact of the matter is, someone will cheat eventually. I'm not saying you can't go 20 years without cheating, but on year 25, someone is gonna fuck up. Its human nature to be self destructive. And if you no longer love the person, then obviously break up cause there is no need for unnecessary cheating. lol All I'm saying is that sometimes, cheating is a necessary evil.
ReplyDeleteWell if ur gunna have that outlook and be negative and always think someone is bound to fuck up, then yeh they will lol bc that person put that negative energy out there! lol ur bound to fail if u never give it a chance and if u go in thinking your already beat. (WHOA!) lol neways I don't believe in necessary evils so I think that ppl who think cheating to save a relationship is ass backwards and should try more pro-active ways lol I say this bc I wanted to be a marriage counselor and I got my degree in Communications lol
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